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[訪談]【親子急急問‧聖誕篇】送禮物代替陪伴令小朋友唔珍惜？結果…
臨近聖誕，不少家長都會借此機會扮成聖誕老人，送禮物給小朋友，來獎勵他們一年來的努力。現代父母工作繁忙，也有家長會用禮物來補償「陪伴」的時間。不過，有臨床心理學家提醒，過多的禮物或會令小朋友不懂得珍惜，甚至忘記曾擁有過的禮物。就此，家長又可以如何應對？ 這一連兩集的親子急急問‧聖誕篇請來臨床心理學家黃詠詩Karen Wong，向家長解釋過多禮物的好與壞。她又提醒家長，不要事事與小朋友談條件。她指出，有時我們並不是想讓小朋友以為所有事都要很辛苦才可以得到，「其實有時候做爸爸媽媽，你總會無條件地送一些物品給自己小朋友，其實都是在表達自己無條件的愛的一個方式。」還有更多貼士，去片！ 原文刊於 Baby Kingdom: https://www.baby-kingdom.com/%E8%82%B2%E5%85%92%E6%88%90%E9%95%B7/%E6%83%85%E7%B7%92%E8%A1%8C%E7%82%BA/%E3%80%90%E8%A6%AA%E5%AD%90%E6%80%A5%E6%80%A5%E5%95%8F%E2%80%A7%E8%
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